Are you happy in the market and life? Most of times I am happy but sometimes I am not. When are you not happy? Long time ago, I didn't think about it since I didn't want to feel pains. Not long times ago, I started to realize I have to face it but times by times I wanted to avoid think about it. Now I want to use it as valuable alert signal to update my mental framework. If you could not figure out what cause your unhappiness, you would make the things for your unhappiness in the market again and again. *** In life and market, the happiness of us depend on some internal and external factors. Someone said: 1. The happiness of those who want to be popular depends on others; 2. the happiness of those who seek pleasure fluctuates with moods outside their control; 3. but the happiness of the wise grows out of their own free acts. It is not very good if your happiness depends on others. Do you really want to be popular in the market or work in dance to get your mental frameworks for your market personal legend? *** When you could not stop the influence to your happiness from others, you would do what others would do. When you do the same as others, you would lose the chances to think independently. When you lose the independence, you would lose the self-reliance, discipline, and analysis capability. So you need to avoid to chase after the popularity since market is a place you have to get high self-interests. Some would say they just want to get the pleasure and it is all they come to the market. They do feel good if they could get the profit. It is great feeling after buying the price just shoots up again and again. However after the price down, they could not be happy anymore. They don't have the power to control the price movement and when they follow the price movement, the market just tends to make jokes with them. So most of retail market players tend to lose their happiness after they rush down to the hell after the whole market into the ruins.